I absolutely adore the moon. I love astrology, human design, candles, crystals and incense. I use my tarot decks daily. My house always smells like incense and is super chill. I have basically turned my whole house into one big altar.
When I first began really getting serious about my practice, I started with crystals. I had always been drawn to stones as a kid. I knew I needed to get grounded so I could navigate all the stress I was going through as I closed an almost decade long chapter.
I was expecting to find a crystal that would solve that. The funny thing that I didn't realize, crystals and stones bring to the forefront that which is blocking you and makes you confront it.
Some of the pretties bring those things gently and block out the energies we aren't ready to handle. Some, like Moldavite, will bring ALL THE THINGS to the forefront that needs to be handled, at the same time. It's important we choose our crystals wisely. I only go with the ones that call out to me.
In my experience, a few of the gentler stones are rose quartz, amethyst and red jasper. My first grounding stones were all dark red or black.
I still go to my black stones for protection and grounded calm. Black Tourmaline is a big favorite here.
New to the practice? Unsure how to decide what crystals you want or need? I'll share how I started and still do it.
At the time leading up to the New Moon, I sit down with a notebook and light a candle. I do some deep breathing and clear my energy the best I can. Then I take notice where I feel off in my body and write it down. I describe it in detail. I do this for all the spots.
Then I look at what I wrote down. Is there a common theme? I find the theme and write it down. That's the energy I need to work on this moon cycle.
Knowing the energy I want to work on is far easier to match than just thinking I had like 25 energies that needed to be balanced. The majority of the time, when we work on grounding, we'll notice many of the other energies we believed were problematic leaving.
I head to a witchy store with this and set my intention before I walk in. "I am open to receiving information from my guides as to what I need to balance the _________ energy. No other energy may enter". Then I walk around the store and get what calls out. Even if it doesn't make logical sense, I trust there's a reason.
This is what works for me. It helps me to build intuition muscles, strengthens my meditation practice, ny self trust, my spiritual trust, my knowledge about crystals and stones (I research them after I buy them) and it exercises my conscious awareness.
What are your go to grounding crystals? Do you know what you want and set out to get it or do you acquire your crystals intuitively? Please share. I love learning about the different ways we practice.
~C 💜